Why don’t you show us how by your example, Scott?
I have forgiven Kobe. Have you? Again, he didn’t get off free and clear. There was a settlement in court and she got her money that she was after. He’s paid restitution for a consensual affair. That’s what is on record. That’s the only facts we have. The victims have forgiven. That includes his wife. So, why do members still hold the hatred and the grudge? Because he was black and she was white? Just wondering. You Utahns need to let it go and move on. Easter is coming up and that means to focus on the atonement and it’s meaning. Forgive and forget. 
Preachifying from the one true preacha man.
We have a specific commandement to warn one another. There is then a definite difference between warning one another and judging one another. Let the judgment of Kobe go. The only ones that matter have all done so.
The judgment was in the form of hush $$$$$$$, not anything else.
You have faxes, emails, phone calls, court documents? No? Then just a rumor.